So what’s a good idea for a first date?

The cinema – an action film or a chick flick, what a dilemma. Or dinner where you might be stuck with an impossible bore for an hour os so.

The best choice is to meet for a drink in the early evening. Then if you really hit it off, suggest you go on for a meal there and then. Being spontaneous is good. And you could always pretend that you were going to meet your mates, and call them to cancel – or is that being wicked?