Last Sunday was national kissing day and I did a slot on BBC Radio Oxford talking about how most women will gauge a man’s potential from their first kiss. When the male presenter asked me how to captivate someone with the first kiss, I said ‘with the breath kisss’. It’s the kiss for guys who tend to rush into things, but a woman can use it too.

The idea is to build the sexual tension by taking it slow, but with purpose and tenderness. Move in very slowly to kiss her on the mouth. When you get about two or three centremetres from her lips, pause. Breathe slowly though your mouth as though you were tasting each other’s breath. Count to at least seven before you slowly move nearer and touch her lips with yours. Then just run the tip of your tongue along her lips and wait for them to part. At that point do not deep throat her, but play with her tongue with the tip of yours, nibble or suck her lower lip.

If you’ve done it properly, she should moan.

Did you see the survey of 1,000 women last week on kissing? It was part of the launch of a sensuous new chocolate called Mistletoe Kisses from Galaxy.

86% of women remember their first kiss and many even remember the name of the guy. In fact most women measure you up on the first kiss. If you’re no good, they will go no further.

54% of the women described themselves as slow and loving kissers.

23% said they were full-on and passionate kissers.

10% said they like to tease when they kiss and

5% like to explore.

What sort of kisser are you?

Doing a radio slot next week on kissing. So I thought I’d list the ten most common types of kisses. They are…

• Air Kiss – the celebrity kiss in the air near their cheeks.
• Closed Kiss – kiss with closed mouth on lips, cheek or forehead.
• French Kiss – the soul kiss where you share tongues and breath.
• Lip Sucking Kiss – suck their lower lip.
• Nibble Kiss – nibble their lower lip.
• Moaning Kiss – moan into their mouth as you kiss.
• Sharing Kiss – kiss and share chocolate, soft fruit or wine.
• Lick Kiss – run the tip of the tongue over their lips just before you kiss.
• Upside Down Kiss – chin to nose and nose to chin.
• Hickey Kiss – the classic love bite.

Whichever you do, a good snog is intoxicating.

Enjoy.

I heard on the radio that it’s National Kissing Day today.

A good snog is intoxicating. Try it with…

• eyes open.
• nibbling their bottom lip.
• flicking the tip of your tongue across their lips.
• moaning – it creates vibration in your mouths.
• kiss with white wine or champagne.

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