My name is Peter Spalton and I have a talent to help people of both sexes build their confidence and create relationships that last. Because of what I do, the media have given me labels like the "Dating Doctor", "Body Boffin", "Dating Guru" and "Love Coach".
As members of friendsfirst you can take advantage of my one-2-one coaching, either on the telephone or face to face, as well as discounts on my Cyber-Seminars and Flirting Safaris.
I am widely recognised as an expert on making friends, body language, flirting and dating. I work as a personal dating coach and can improve your success at making new friends and dating. I have been featured on Sky News, Channel 5, ITV2, Central TV, Five Live and Radio 2 and I appear regularly in the press and on radio stations around the country. You can read what the Birmingham Post said about me.
Cyber-Seminars
A Cyber-Seminar is conducted via conference call and email. You receive a workbook by email and during the seminar you get the chance to ask questions and interact with the other attendees.
Click the book button for more information and to join one of my Cyber-Seminars.
One-on-One Coaching
Coaching is more about guidance than teaching. Most face to face coaching sessions take place in the Birmingham area. However occasionally I run them in other cities when I'm visiting them to run workshops or speak at dating events.
Alternatively telephone coaching is the best option when you can't get to Birmingham. There are no travel costs and it can be done at a time that's convenient to you.
Click the book button to arrange a coaching session.
Flirting Safari
The Flirting Safari is a unique experience to develop and practice your "meeting new people" skills. You will be with a handful of people who, under my guidance, will practice how to approach and talk to complete strangers in city centre shops and bars. It sounds very daunting, but you will get expert coaching in a real life situation!
Click the book button to go on the next Flirting Safari.
My Personal Values
My values are about helping people find friends, soulmates and potential partners. I have been married for 22 years and I focus on helping you create a long-lasting relationship.
My values are all about respect for other people. For example, I help people build rapport by developing good listening skills. However, some of the skills and techniques that I encourage can be seen as manipulation. So if you attend one of my Cyber-Seminars or coaching sessions, I will ask you to show respect to other people and use your new-found skills without malice or the intention to harm. I call this deception without deceit, like the answer to the question "does my bum look big in this?"
What People Say about My Work
Peter was excellent. He spoke confidently and with enthusiasm and professionalism.
Thanks for the flirting lessons Peter. Very enlightening!
Peter, your Flirting Safari is an incredibly fantastic event. I cannot stop singing your praises
Peter, thanks for the coaching session yesterday. I used your technique of painting word pictures when asked a question last night. I was very impressed with the technique. Feel much more positive now!
Hi Peter. I wanted to thank you for such a wonderful session yesterday. I certainly feel more confident now and able to approach groups! ....once again thank you for such an informative session!
Peter's flirting & dating wokshop exceeded my expectations.
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